Learn to accept mistakes :)
“Mistakes are Always Forgivable,if one has the courage to admit them” — BRUCE LEE
Hello folks,this is ankur and today i would like to share an incident that just happened with me last night.A small road accident ,but a big realisation of good morale.
Accepting your mistake is a big deal,at least for Teenagers and amateur adults.People sometimes react like they aren’t part of any of the bad inputs but maybe unknowingly become so.Most of the time we try to run away and impose the situation on others. We often distribute the cause to lame excuses.Rather than looking to the incident we try to clear dirt from ourselves …. The possible reasons could be the fear of consequences OR our Ego comes into the picture and suppresses our morale down.Second one i believe to be the modest one… we are so much indulge into oneself that we are not ready to accept our mistakes and admit that we are wrong.Also we tend to think making mistake kills respect…. am i right????……Humans have the right to make mistakes and learn from them .. don’t they?????
Road accident in delhi is a very common phenomena,like saying bc. People here in capital are used to these daily life-cycle …. pollution + traffic + accidents + etc + etc….Yesterday i met a small one,where i hit a cycle carrying herbs…. music on two-wheeler snatches your control over speed ..Earlier i try to blame the opposition before he(luckily never had hit a girl) can even stand and yell …this is a typical way to escape and prove yourself to be correct. Sadly, physique plays a role in deciding a winner and i was winning this time..But yesterday there was a difference,I accepted my mistake and helped him arrange his belongings.. I know it might sound easy but i was really overwhelmed.The way his face structure changes and the voice of his words” koi baat ni bhya” filled me with satisfaction.I was satisfied to lose a fight.I could run over my Ego,and i believe its a great great feeling.To feel sorry doesn’t hurt your respect,it increases your self-respect and self-worth which is worthiest thing..:)
Making same mistake again and again is a crime but making a mistake and learning in order to not to repeat is a lesson….Humans need to learn a lot more which simplifies to make more mistakes.Accepting mistake is very easy when you choose your Ego/negative-attitude not to take part in any of your decisions.Learning from mistakes ,not just yours but also made by others is a process of healthy living.Accepting mistake is easy and satisfying:)
Thankyou, This was my experience..share yours with @therovermind #LiveLife
